Stepmom: About Death and Dying

Topics: Family, Death, Life Pages: 7 (1256 words) Published: November 22, 2010
Movie Review: Stepmom

November 16th, 2010

The film step mom beautifully portrays the effects death and dying can have on a

family. Even one like the Harrison's, where the parents are split up, and and a new

women has come into Luke's live. Their will always be different ways of coping with

death and that is shown through all the characters, be it strong willed like Luke and

Jackie, negatively and dramatically like the daughter Anna, or positively and unaware

like the son Ben. All these different ways of coping make this film an ideal one to view

the different ways one can cope.

Throughout the film Stepmom death is shown as both a negative and positive

affecting occurrence. When the main character Jackie Harrison is first told that her

diagnosed cancer has became much worse, she is spiteful and hate-filled. She

resents the fact that her recently divorced husband is now getting married to a younger

woman, she is also angry that her marriage to Luke didn't work out, and is also

saddened at the fact that she will never live to see her children grow up. The positive

aspects of death in this film is that Jackie soon realizes that she has to come to grips

with her inevitable death. This allows her to live her remaining months in peace with

her children and even become happy with Luke and Jena Malone getting married.

In the circumstance on Jackie Harrison, death is not presented as a natural part

of the life cycle. Cancer, is a modern problem with no modern cure as of yet. It

endangers and ends many young lives throughout the world. Jackie was already

diagnosed with cancer a year before, however, when she went for a re-evaluation it

was found that the cancer had re-appeared and had intensified in her body. This

shows that cancerous cells can begin to form at anytime in one's body and is not a

natural part of the life cycle.

In the case of Jackie there are two sides. At first when re-diagnosed she is very

fearful. Not for herself, but rather for her children. Jackie is afraid that she will not be

able to see her children again, and be able to watch them grow up and lead fulfilling

lives. She is delivered more bad news at a dinner by her ex-husband. Luke tells

Jackie that he is to marry Jena Malone. Jackie is angered again and can not bare to

tell Luke that she is in fact dying of cancer and will not be around to raise their

children. Another scene depicting anger is after Ben falls off the play structure and

needs stitches. At the hospital she tries to see her son, but Jena is already there

comforting him. He asks Jena to sing her a song because "Mommy always

does" (Stepmom). As Jackie looks on from outside the room Jena sings for Ben and

she is angered by this and goes home and has a fit in her home.

Jena uncovers Jackie's secret through a conversation they have at her home.

She tells Jena that she is infect going to L.A. to see an oncologist for treatment. Jena is

saddened to hear that the ex-wife is dying of cancer and asks "are you dying?", to

which Jackie replies "Not today…" (Stepmom). This in turn affects Luke who is the next

to find out and thus feels guilty. He feels as though it should have been him and not

Jackie. They decide to tell the children about the cancer together and this scene

provides the most dramatic effect of the movie. Ben takes the news very lightly and is

intrigued as to what his mom is enduring, there is a doubt as to how much Ben knows

about the situation. He thinks it's less serious then it actually is. The daughter Anna, is

immediately angered by the news and storms off. As she heads upstairs Luke yells

"You do not run out on your mother", and she replies "No that's your job" (Stepmom).

This scene is important because it shows how the family as an entirety deals with


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Bibliography: I) Stepmom, DVD, Directed by Chris Columbus, (1998) Columbia Pictures, Hollywood. California
II) Heather M.Butts,JD,MPH
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